i agree with you lisa- I work to channel being aggressive to accertiveness.

I also wish that this type of stuff would be brought up to help us. Yawn yep some of little girls liked toy fire trucks [ I liked doll houses] BUT i do like the guys that drive those trucks now : )

Yep.......nothing worth getting upset about but when I get going .....; ) it scares people and I really like people so I don’t want to do that.

I always say that for CAH in my experience and I’m being a flake here but much better to just cry than wack someone across the top of the head ; P I’d never hurt anyone but this one nurse practitioner ...it would feel so good to snap her in two and toss her in the corner hehehe BUT would prove nothing ...instead I’m learning that her personality is just like that and that is just the way it is. Your English teacher there yells and somehow your DD would benefit by stepping back in her mind ....disengaging from the outside energy that is causing feeling creating tears but recognizing that gosh needing to remember or write I needed to do that paper .....me bad but next time ...will do better.....then let go when ready to.

 

I can yell,cry and be angry at the same time but I can stop it like that ....I guess it comes with age ; 0 In certain places yelling, crying, and anger is cathagic- Like place a doctor in front of me and I will yell for every genital exam ever done to me.....am I yelling at him personally? No, he represents ....the society establishment and after yelling,crying ...it helps. Teachers ..to me had the sorta the same power. I remember lightening into one teacher after a book report - she told me that I was incorrect and I wasn’t ...shoved the book in her face to prove it. 

 I agree this is something that needs to be looked at as kids because once I got into the yelling and anger .....I enjoyed it ......a little snip by some cashier that thought she knew me as a regular customer - I had the head of the store at her register apologising to me......over reracting but oh so fun- that’s bad.

A german personality enhanced by fluctuating hormones.

Even still I think all of this is also the reason that I will go out of my way for some people.