thanks for all ur help but although i have tried talking to him and i do believe that it has help alot, although at the beginning it was a it uncomfortable. but he is like not keen on finding out how to deal or to talk to people on here.  also he think now that i dont trust him as i told him about here and he thinks i am cheekig up on him. but i really think that if he talks to people on here it will help him so much to feel better about himself. so thanks again for the advise. i think it has helped.