Thank you Tonia!! You are so right and you know what its people like Robin who think that a child with special needs is something of an idiot with no IQ well I must have one then And you know what else I do recall is when i went to the SSI they said oh your son has a specail need? MMMM UH yes if he does not take his meds he will DIE. IS that a Good enough reason? MMM let me think. I hate when people can not accept a chidl with special needs regardless of what kidn or what type!! I am  so thank full for this board and for people who teach me new things everyday. And i am in no way trying to offend anyone. I just think hey we have children with some special needs i mean they take meds to stay alive so is that not special enough? I mean they dont have to have a low IQ or physical things wrong with them like my other son.