I can feel what you are going through.  I too had a miscarriage this past summer.  I found it really hard to deal with and no matter what people said, it didn’t seem to soothe my hurt.  I found a song that I felt totally said what I needed to hear.  It is a Christian song about a mother talking to her child that she miscarried.  The song is called "Glory Baby" and it’s by Watermark.  It really helped me heal and I hope that it does the same for you.  Please keep us updated.