We all feel differently and it always amazes me that as soon as some is honest and doesn’t agree with all on this board - they are told things such as "Rip down the angry, shameful, pity party wall paper plastered in your mind" - have you walked in my shoes, or the shoes of those who have lost children to CAH - do you think they think it is a good thing to have?  Some of the children have died due to doctors not listening....... I did say I appreciate where Danny is coming from, just that I personally cannot feel like others that it has enriched my life - or given my son a reason to make excuses etc....... it has been absolute hell, where as I do understand it hasn’t been so bad for others. Last word on the subject from me..........