Oh, I’m so very sorry if I sounded like I was ripping on you!!   When I said "rip down the wallpaper, etc., - pity party", that is something I have said to myself and what others have said directly to me.  Not everyone takes things or thinks about things as I do and I’m sorry for being sounding so harsh.  Please forgive me?

There is nothing wrong with being angry.   Anger is a normal response in life.   I was trying to share my perspective on how I handled my anger.  I sometimes come across being blunt and that is an issue in my communication skills that I continue to grow from!!

It sounds like your are feeling really down.  I’m so sorry!!  There are so many, many horrible atrocities that occur in life, especially to children.  Honestly, I’d rather my kids have CAH than live in Iraq, rather than having a brain tumor, rather than anyother gene mutation that I know of, etc., etc., etc.  I have a friend whose 4 yr old son died last X-mas Eve of a brain tumor.  I can’t imagine the pain!!  I’d rather my kids have CAH. 

Of course, overall, I’d rather have my kids be PERFECT, in PERFECT health!!  We live in a fallen world, our bodies are deteriorating, our genes are mutating, people make mistakes, doctors make mistakes, etc.   These disorders, illnesses, tragedies will continue on this side of heaven.

Again, Anon, please accept my apology if I offended you or anyone else!!