You need a surgeon that will explain the risks involved regardless of how good they say they are. Make sure you keep the surgeons number for her. It’s nice to have a good surgeon ...one would expect that Mom and Dad would go the extra mile for you but the most important thing is that it’s her body and is this causing her harm or just making you uncomfortable? Darn trauma I was put through to make other comfortable when I was between three and five.

If you child has just an enlarged clitoris then there is a chance that they will grow into it after the medication is adjusted if she is higher on the Prader scale then it’s harder because you want everything ok for menstration. I read about one parent that was really glad his kid didn’t go under the knife because he said that she grew into it and read about another lady that has locah that after she started med that it shrunk.

Your kid and ya got to do what you got to do. Some have nerve sensation and other don’t.

You seem tramatized by all this and caresfoundation will be able to give you assistance to fix it.