Your sexual experience is NOT WHO YOU ARE!!  "I haven’t had a professional haircut yet", "I have never flown on an airplane", "I’ve never eaten lobster", "I’ve never had sex".  Sex isn’t just another thing to pass time or a right of passage!!!  Its a precious gift to share!!   I remember when I 1st had sex, I felt I was the "only one" who hadn’t had it done to.   Thinking  back I feel sad for that young woman I once was because I did not have enough self esteem to cherish my virginity.  Not that you are me, I’m just shaing my feelings.  Folks, please don’t bash my thread if you feel differently - this is just my opinion. 

Our world certainly doesn’t tell you that being a virgin is an amazing display of self control & respect, in fact you are made fun of; T.V., music, radio -- it all gives you the message that sex is just another thing to do on a date!!  I wish I could tell my daughters that their dad was the only man I’ve ever been with.  

It does not matter what surgery you have or have not had, whether you have had sex or not, whether you have long hair or not, whether you have had a child or not, whether you have had a breast removed or not, whether you are balding or not~~ YOU are a WOMAN and every aspect of who you are can be CHERISHED!!!