Hi Natalie!

I think you are a really sweet lady and someone that I would like to go shopping with ...I don’t know if you looked at the one part but Steph asked also not to be critisized for her feelings either. With respect BUT you don’t have CAH whewww I said it. You aren’t on the phone with others at three in the morning after listening to how they really feel compared to the "party line" of what parents and docotrs want to here. Saving oneself for marriage is a nice thing and I really like the whole concept but with CAH and all the focus on our genitals from the surgery those we just want to take a peek to ...pull, poke and pull apart. It becomes something that may become not as special as Steph has a right to her feeling in her blog. Natalie ...darling I’ve been wanting to say it also but I know people ...way to many that did the waiting for marriage thing and I LIKE THAT but they at 35 and 42 have chucked they marriage ring and are making up for lost time. There are also those that are together like peas in a pod and that is beautiful to.

This is why I right about genital exams ....my diginity and self - respect was striped with each one and it didn’t matter that for the most part my awesome Mom- that lady Love her ...Solid and STRONG was in the room or that the doctors were trained ....errr or learningto be trained. And no pep talk from others really matter .....I agree everyone is worth it and it’s good to be cherished. The difference between sex and love does is so good we agree with you. Here is another thing and I’m trying to be understanding because I believe you wrote about being on anti depressants ( See, everyone i can be nice ) ...Ms. with respect please don’t minimize the surgery that we have BECAUSE IT DOES MATTER this young lady wrote about her surgery in her blog and sometimes sex is an extention of the end stitch if you will of CAH/SURGERIES  nope it’s not really good to use another in this many to see if the darn thing works or you mght also say that one does this to take it out of the doctors ownership and try to claim it for yourself. Natalie.....do you know how long it takes for sex or even love to feel less like a genital exam ? How long does it take for you not to glaze over an hide in yourself ??/???...that never worked for me and that area still belongs to the U of Mich . I am Babbling from the most inner core ...Steph I don’t even know if I cover where you are coming from but this lady .....whatever.  You do what is right for you ...wait or don’t. Careful though sister STD’s ...condoms don’t cover everything and with some STD’S condoms don’t even matter. Plus, most people that have STD’S don’t even know it. Food for though ..Maybe?  

Anyway - Loved the Blog so far and will look again. You’re real Girl ...bless You !