Dear Natalie,

I have a true story for you from a couple years back - I live in an upper middle class to wealthy area and I was having lunch at the local chain restaurant after shopping at the mall - this was a Saturday afternoon. The place was empty and the I was sitting there enjoying my chicken salad when the staff sat these two older men across from me. I didn’t think anything of them...really just someone’s husband (rings on those fingers ) or dad. I kept to myself eatting my salad when the tall one piped up noticing my bags made mention of shopping. I said yes .....chatted a bit about clothes ...ha they looked harmless enough chatted a little more the tall one mentioned that he was on the board of one of the local churches....alright I thought and went back to my salad ...a little while later - that same person in front of his friend offered me $ 1500 and I said no....no that’s ok with the disapointment of here was a married member of a church board doing this. So .....lady when you go on about this fantasy of marriage ....hummmm recently I was at the beach ... five married men (nice rings)  came into a little restaurant where my friend works . I thought wow ...it would be nice to be married to one of them and they left for an hour ....yeah when they came back? they had changed clothes and EACH one didn’t have their ring on anymore. I have more ....