Steph, as I wrote in my message, this is just my opinion.  I was hoping my opinion would be an encouragement.  I am relatively new this is board and I’m not sure I like it.  Can’t we just share our opinions and let the reader make their own choice?  Why do people specifically rip on what other people’s experiences have been?  We share personal, intimate thoughts, etc., as an example~~ having an enlarged clitoris or being on anti-depressents, why would someone remark in a negative way??  I’m learning that in this space for CAH acceptance, parents, etc., it is not always safe.  I’m going to try and just stick to data and nothing personal.