Hey steph, i’m chloe and i’m 14 and i’m already experiencing some of these things you have, To be honest i read some of these people’s comments and they sound quite rude because they just don’t understand how we feel with the condtion, like although i’m only 14 and not planning to have sex right now i still feel i want to do as in the fact i’m different down there and things makes you feel you have to do it to like prove to yourself you can, to have a life you don’t have to have sex, yeah but when it’s one of your main worries it does matter to you! I just want to say you seem a very interesting and lovely lady and i could really relate to some of your thoughts! I would like to ask you though, about stretchmarks, what did you do to get rid of them, or did you let them fade? Because at the moment i’m getting quite bad ones and i just want them to atleast fade abit. My mums considering laser but really i’m not allowed it til i’m 16 was there anything you used or are you using? Your blog really helped me alot because you explain things and don’t make them seem horrible like some people say ’’i’m a lesbian because i have cah’’ you’re more open and speak your true mind not just what people want to hear and i thank you for that! I hate it when people say on websites all cah girls are lesbians! i certainly am not one, i’m not against gays, one of my friends is a lesbian i have no problem with them, just to myself i’m  not interested in girls in that way, boys on the other hand i’ve always bin fond of since i was about 4....not as in playin boy games but having boyfriends....Also i would love to have a husband one day and have children it’s my feelings and i’m not letting these websites make me change my ways. i really liked reading your blog i found it extremely interesting ang helpful, as i relate to it, thank you so much you’ve given me a boost in life:) chloe