aimeeDear Anon,
You didn’t do anything to deserve this. It’s just something that happens- I have SVCAH and a year and a half ago cancer - nothing to do with the CAH but the surgeries and all the BS about it made the cancer hard to be detected- had to faint in a pool of blood for someone to consider that I may be right anyway I look at all of these things as lessons to learn from. I can say that my life is better because of the cancer --- strange isn’t it?
I can relate about the foley and an understanding tech does help-
Best of luck.