Yeah Thanks well I started out weighing 120 and I ended up at 200 the day I went and had her now it is very hard to lose weight for me It does not matter what or how much I eat or exercise I still can not lose. um.. I only weighed 165 when they stuck me in the hospital and put me on that magnesuim sulfate to stop my labor because I was already dilated to one in January and I still had 3 months to go, but she did not even weigh a pound in January and they told me to eat and keep eating so that she would gain weight and I could lose afterwards and well that is not happening I weigh 190 now. I was very active before they put me on bed rest matter of fact my boyfriend had a heck of a time to keep me down for awhile, What gets me is that I spent 2 months in the hospital and they never found out y I was in premature labor, I started premature labor at 25 weeks and five days. and I got more than one ultra sound and they just told me that she was going to be a small baby. She is doing well but we have to go once a month to get blood work done and she is a year old and 1 month and they still have her on soduim chloride. I have noticed that she does not eat that much. She is in the 5th percentile now. When she was in my stomach though she was in the 3 percentile. And another thing I never had acne problems until I got pregnant and stuck in the hospital, soon as they stuck me on that meds I broke out in acne all over my body the acne on my body parts like my back and arms and legs have went away but not so much on my face. I went to my gyno after I had my baby for my check up and I told him that and he thought that I had a allergic reaction to the magnesuim so they put me on some meds to clear it up but it did not help. I  asked him about us getting testing done on mother(myself) and father he told me he would get back with me because he could not do it he would have to send me else where and he has never got back with me over it. I always carried a normal blood pressure until after I had my daughter and now they got me on blood pressure meds 100 mg 2 times a day. But we are doing alright and I try not to let this stuff bother me, I would not give her up for anything. I just know there are going to be times to come that I am going to have to talk to her  about this and if I do not know the bottom of it all I do not feel as if I am being the mother I should be. Did u and your husband/ boyfriend go through any testing after you had your child that was diagonesed? How do I go about doing so? Thanks for all your help Beth. Michele