AIMEE, I COULD  NOT SAID IT ANY BETTER THEN YOU JUST SAID.  I WOULD ADD TWO THINGS, ONE I HAD MY PICTORE TOOK OF MY BOTTOM AND PUT IN SOME BOOK,  TWO I STARTED BEING SEXAULY ACTIVE VERY EARLY AND WITH WHO EVER CAME MY WAY.  I FELT NOTHING WAS WRONG WITH THAT BECAUSE AS FAR BACK AS I REMEMBER MEN AND WOMEN WOULD PUT THERE FINGERS IN.  I FELT WHATS THE DIFFRENTS.  THIS IS MY OWN VIEW I THINK PARENTS SHOULD WAIT UNTIL THEY ARE OLDER, DON’T ASK A DOCTOR ASK US OLDER FOLKS.