it’s great that you have found peace with who you are and although some with CAH could Id  as "intersex" it’s been my experience of lots of people without CAH Id as intersex too! I go to this ice cream shop and I have no idea what the person is giving me my order. All I know this person 6 foot something and anybody’s gender guess ....so intersex ...right? nice person and very ploite and that is what counts.

As for CAH- they the experts and hopeful parents  would like to say your a girl with an adrenal gland condition but really I think with this condition we span everything and what counts is contributing to society in a positive way and being nice.  See surgery was supposed to help you Id as female and to help instill the interest in birthing children but I think to Id as Intersex must be neat but not wired down the middle which would be my loss. What does it mean to Id as Intersex?  maybe it will help ease some things if you could explain more?