Hi, I know this is totally not the same scenario but thought I would post it anyway, maybe gives some kind of insight. My son used to say his peepee hurt when it stuck out. He actually cried the first time it stuck out and he said it wouldn’t go down and it hurt. He was using the bathroom. So maybe this is what’s happening, especially with going potty or going #2 and having to bare down. Just thought I’d share that. LOL, he will be so mad if he ever finds out I posted that!!