Aimee,

Thank you for another long post and sharing about your experiences.  I know you like to write and it helps all for you to share that.

Funny though, and maybe I was too vague in my post since I didn’t mention specifics.  I wasn’t talking about you at all, unless you are "don’t freak out".  I thought the nastiness in that post was uncalled for.  But there is a tension in posts all across this board that make no sense to me.  You try in every post to make people see things the way you see them and experienced them.  I understand that and respect that.  And I respect the other health issues you’ve had, including cancer.   I as a parent of a child with CAH live our lives as though CAH is secondary to everything else.  It is not the focus of our lives, it is a part of it.  I am not ashamed of my daughter and never would be!  And I hope that we are raising her to never feel as though there is anything to be ashamed of.  I’m not a fuzzy bunny and live in reality.  So with the step ford wife, fuzzy bunny, etc....... stuff... that’s not me.  I am who I am.  I live life each day and take what comes, good and bad.  I can handle the truth.  What you say doesn’t bother me, Aimee.