Well said Jen, I am so pleased it was not only me who noticed the nastiness in the post don’t freak out as I thought the same and that is why I posted.  Some of us in life have had harder things to deal with but it is no excuse for people to judge others. A problem is a problem and no matter how small or big it is, this is what this board is for, to share and be kind to each other.  So I am for one, glad you mentioned this, I am sure a lot of others are too but often this type of post end ups being heated and turns nastier which is why I am sure a lot of people do not bother to post. Thank you for your post.