Hello.  I couldn’t help read your thread because I had a baby 8 months ago-born wo CAH- and I had just had my first, A SWCAH boy 14 months before her.  We, or should I say I, went on dex because we did the research, or at least I thought, that by going on Dex for that short of time, before we found out the sex of the child, and that the end result of  having a girl with CAH would be better or so we thought for her in the long run.  I guess, my point is, that I know it is the choice of the parents to determine what path to take, to self medicate or not, but why is it that you decided not to take the dex.  I am very interested to know for future reference, should I decide to have another child (wow a third...not sure if I am ready or not.)  Thank you.