I did not see anything wrong with Anon’s post, sorry and I also realise Chris D was not meaning anything but trying to give hope. When you are sensitive about an issue, it is human to react in this way and what anon wrote was very true.  I think it is you that has posted in a very bad way and who are you to tell people to go else where. Anon we need honest posts, we need to know the hurt and upset your problems have caused you, so we as parents can learn from this, to help prevent the same happening to our children or preparing them for what they may face also perhaps educating the medical profession and encouraging them to look into problems such as these. There was no need for this post anon2 as far as I am concerned, this sort of thing makes people afraid to post on this board.