I wasn’t "trying to cause problems". I am tired of the insults given to people who are posting questions through their love and concern for others.  This gives a rude and uncaring response to people who  may be infrequent visitors...not the best impression to portray and of no  benefit to this forum (or the people asking). 

The Mark and Teresa thread on the controversy board: "but if she’s isn’t into you then surgery or not... no sex" from ’*’ ......to which you replied it was "cruel and insensitive".

The Concerned Girlfriend thread: "If he isn’t talking to you about this then how much do you really think he thinks of you as a girlfriend" from ’Buggs’.......to which you said we should treat Nikki with "more respect".

I agree.

People trying to help others don’t deserve these insults. It’s not the advice that is offered but the way is which it is offered and the (unasked for) insults that accompany it.