MarthaMI do not have CAH, but both my boys do. They are not really hairy. I have really dark hair and fair skin- I have dealt with unwanted hair all my life. I started shaving early too.
I recently (over the last 3 years) have had laser hair removal with fantastic results. I am not sure if you could take an 8 year old and it is expensive, but just so you know they can do a lot with the laser now and you do not have to suffer with dark unwanted hair forever.
I would say if it bothers her then I would try some hair removal options, shaving or nair or even waxing....
Good luck.