Follow what your gut tells you to do.

If it was me? I would write down the worries that I have because of the surgery she is having and then the worries of her not having the surgery.

Then I would take the lists and ask the doctor to comment on them and I would also ask and I’m going to get bashed by this one but I would talk with a member of your faith or someone that has an in with God things : )

It was with God that I found to peace to deal with my cancer two years ago ...no matter what the final out come will be and nobody knows the outcome of anything but they can have faith that they tried to do what was best for their own.

This doctor wouldn’t let her go through surgery if he didn’t think that there was going to be a positive outcome.    

I’m going to get bashed for this one also but whenI was going through the cancer ....I decided that if the doctors weren’t worried then i wasn’t going to be either. It wasn’t until latter that the one doc went that he was surprised how good I did and little DID HE KNOW THAT I was drawing on his strengh. later another doc was crossing his fingers that it would all work out.

Here’s to bringing you home pretty finger painting pictures in pre -school and a beautiful life.

Aimee