Hi ..me again > : )

It just gets me that you have to face this at 21 with your daughter and i hope that you have family/friends arounf that will help you. This internet site is wonderful but you aslo have to live and function in the world. I don’t know you or your child but I’ve been sitting here and also puttering around but you are on my mind and geeez so young with all this - I have an idea that might help you right know and might benefit your daughter latter on : ) I know that other will bash/pick apart  me for all my posts to you anyway but here it goes anyway ...waht about creating some sort of scrapbook for your daughter about this whole experience? Complete with letters from you and others> From what I gather Doctor Poppas is really cool and caring ..maybe you could get him to put a note in their for her also? You could put pictures in there from NYC, the nurses and of course You and Her  : )   a scrapbook....a time capsule of everything you were feeling during this time and your hopes for her. 

It would be my wish that this type of project would benefit you  in some way helping to cope with the worry and then this would benefit your child latter because you would have all the info & thoughts  about the time period gathered together for her.    

Aimee