I first posted this in the wrong message....

Aimee,

I’m sorry you’ve had to endure such hardships as a child.  I cannot personally say that I know what you have gone through.  I do have two children, both SWCAH.  My daughter had the vaginoplasty and clitoroplasty done as a baby.  I have been concerned about how this will affect her emotionally as she grows up.  I will stress to her that this disorder does not make you who you are.  God made her the way he wanted her to be and I hope she does not feel any less of a women because of it.  The only reason I had her surgery done was for medical purpose so that she would be able to menstrate.  I have been on this site ever since she was born, 3 years ago.  Every time I read a message from you I get this overwhelming since of anger from you.  Sure, you have a right to be angry if you weren’t treated medically the way you should have.  But at some point, you need to move on from the past.  Please try to focus more on the brighter side of life.  True, I know nothing about you outside of this disorder but I feel like you need a little laughter and love in your life.  Please don’t be so angry.  I would hate for my daughter to read one of your messages in a few years and feel the way I feel after reading them.  I love my daughter and hopes she grows spiritually from all this.  God is an amazing person.  I hope you have a relationship with him because he can make life wonderful even after all the yucky stuff that life is about.  Please turn to him...