Thank you to all who has posted. I am going to take each and everyone of your suggestions. I do know that the cafeteria where he eats is very loud. He has lost weight. He was 48 pounds and he is down to 40 well 39&1/2 pounds now. They have taken him out of the lunch room and he now eats in the office where it is qiuet. But I dont want them to think that they have to give him special privleges either. I want him to eat with the other kids too. I just talked with his teacher and she told me that he seems to being doing fine. But the problem is that she is not always the one that is with him. Or watching him or whatever. They have an Aid that is in the classroom with the kids in the morning and then goes to the other and back and forth. But what she told me today and after thinking about it, I am thinking that the aid is with him and helps him more that the teacher. Im not saying that is wrong but the way i am taking is that the aid helps more than the teacher. But the assistant did ask me if i thought he had some sensory issues. I said well he hates wearing socks, hates wearing a coat, wont eat anything but peanutbutter and a certain kind of jam, and he leary on certain things that he touches. But I also have a son who has Fragile X syndrome and Autisum. So I had Blake tested and he was clear of everything. So im just lost. But then the assistant principal said that she thinks that he wants some ME time. Meaning that he is doing this as acting out saying that he needs me to have some alone time with him and that he is jealous because of his brother and i having my attention to him most of the time. But I dont know about that one. I just wish that a booklet came with parenting. LOL I am hoping that something will give and he will be getting over this soon. The problem is though that when he gets there he is fine. SO im kinda thinking that he has some anxiety about getting there but when he is there he is ok. But today was a bad day. I just know God gives you what you can handle . I just wonder if i can handle all this. I thank you all for your responses.