Thank you for clearifying your position.  I just want new parents to know that CAH is not an ugly, embarrasing disorder, like how you make it come across sometimes.  When a new parent finds out that their child has this disorder, I’m sure, as I did, that they read everything possible about the disorder.  If I had read some of your posts 3 years ago when I had my daughter and the doctor’s couldn’t tell me for the first 3 days of her life if she was a boy or a girl, I would have been scared and depressed about this disorder. That’s great if you use this board as your means of dealing with CAH but please also realize that alot of people use this board as a way to overcome their fears of CAH and all that goes with it.