We take the same position as Danny, our son does not stay with anyone who does not understand his CAH and take it seriously.  

As things stand right now, he is only left in the care of his Aunt when we are at work.  Any other time, he is with one or both of us.  As he gets older, I’m sure that he will ask to go other places, but for now he’s a little guy and is content to be with Mum and Dad.