when i was young i was very worried about how i look.  over the years i have found it to be a blessing.  the guys found out how good that little button is.  they would touch it in a way that would send me to the moon and back, many times in a row.  i decided years ago that if a man does’nt like me for who i am i do not need that person in my life.  a man that has problem about down below is the same type of man who is going to tell you how to live your own life, what to were, who you can talk to.  no need.  look in the mirror everyday and tell your self "i am made perfect, for my creator made me this way, and the creator does not make junk." 

my partners loves me for who i am, and i love her.

i hope this helps you some.