Hi Dani, I know it is a tough decision. But like someone else said don’t let it stop you from getting pregnant if that is what you desire. All children are wonderful and God gives you what is mean’t to be. My first child a girl has swcah, she is 4 now and wonderful. She has had one surgery and will need another later close to menustration. We knew we wanted more and after two miscarriages I am now 9 months pregnant with a baby boy. We did not choose to do the dex treatments after much thought and consideration. I liked the fact that my ob and my perinatologist supported our decision either way without judging. I had to consider blood pressure issues, the fact that I had to feel good on top of pregnancy symptons to take care and be the mother to my 4 year old that she needed while pregnant and long term effects. We are very blessed to find out that the baby is not even a carrier. We were prepared though that it could have been the other way and a girl but we felt confident in our care and our decision. Whatever you decide have peace with your choice. Hope this helps.