I wasn’t going to get in on this discussion but here goes.  There are several new moms on this board that really need our encouragement, support and advice.  This board has meant alot to me over the years and I know has saved the life of both of my girls on more than one occasion.  I’m wondering, as adults, is it so difficult to stop and think for a minute before posting out of emotional reaction.  OR maybe politely ask for a clarification if you misinterpret someones post before jumping on them?  Just a thought.  I would think the last thing we should be doing is going against each other since what we really need is to support and uphold each other whether you have CAH or are a parent of a cah child.  I’m not saying that we don’t disagree with each other on things but sometimes the venom here really stings.  I think it takes courage for each and everyone of us to come here and share such personal things, things that can bring a lot of pain.  Remember, it is a written forum and you cannot hear voice inflection and easily misunderstand someone.  I really value everyone here!  Thank you for all your support and encouragement through the years!

Blessings,

Tonia