You may have meant well writing this, but ’GET over yourselves no matter what the circumstance is.  If you have CAH, a child with CAH it is how you make it.’  Rubbish, there are a lot of problems with CAH and it is not how you make it, some people have loads of problems from the meds others don’t.  People do not choose to have crisis’s, or joint or bone problems.Yes this post may not have been directed at people who have lost a child but if you have the title is very hurtful, if something kills your child, it is hard to think there is something worse. I cannot get over myself or the loss of my child. Sometimes posts are not answered because we do not know the answers.