LAURA I AM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOVE ONE. I TOO  AM FACING THE SAME THING. MY SISTER WAS TOID LAST YEAR THAT SHE HAD ABOUT NINE MONTH TO LIVE AS OF NOW SHE HAVE MADE IT PASS THAT NOW, BUT SHE IS GETTING WEAKER EVERY DAY. MY POINT IS MY SON AS SWCAH AND HE KNOWS SHE IS DYING SO HE WRITE HER LETTER AND TAPE HER A LOPPELY POP TO IT HE TELL HER THAT HE LOVE HER ALL THE TIME. SHE HAS A RARE KIND OF LUPUS  THAT EFFECT HER HEART AND LUNGS. WE ALWAYS TELL HIM THE TRUTH WENT HE ASK TELL HER THE TRUTH YOU WILL BE SURPRISE HOW GROWN UP THEY ARE. MY PRAYER WILL BE WIYH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY