I wish I could keep the light hearted conversation up or come up with a joke.   But I am worried for my daughter.  Will she have a hard time being friends with other girls as she grows up?  I feel like I’m raising a third boy at times.  She is only interested in boy toys she hates barettes in her hair, and the girl toys friends have given her sit untouched.  Even if her older brother plays with a girl "people" toy, she will only use a boy one.  I tried to put a dress on her the other day and god forbid a bow in her hair and she freaked out.  I said to my husband let’s give her a buzz and put a suit on her.  ha ha  I hope she won’t struggle trying to find her place in life.  I’m not in to forcing her to be more girly.  Than I think I am the female role model in her life.  Should I try to encourage her to like girl things?  I don’t want her to feel isolated from other females when it comes to friend ships.  I read that she would prefer boy type play.  I did not realize how true that would be.  I think I have not slept much this past 2 years and I am over worrying.  Thank God for this site, no one in my social circle understands due to lack of understanding.