Hi J,
I think you’re getting some really good advice. I was very much a tomboy, especially during those first 10 years...I ’forced’ my mom to cut my hair short in the first grade too. I’m sure she worried, especially since back in the ’60’s no one knew about CAH etc. As I got older, I became more interested in boys and the rest seemed to follow naturally.
I would be certain to make sure her levels are watched closely for a lot of reasons, this being one of them. Other than that, just enjoy your little one. I think one of the most important childhood experiences a child can have is to have his or her mother’s eyes light up at their sight!
Good luck!

Sharon