Are these girls hitting a certain age and forcing themselves to act like other women just to fit in?  I don’t see that as being happy.  I am worried I guess because I have a hard time sometimes talking about things like decorating or shopping .  I have always loved cars and I can easily find men’s conversation interesting.  Sometimes when we are out with another couple, I find myself listening more to the guys and than catch myself and focus on talking about women things.  However, I am very feminine looking and love to do hair.  Yet I don’t have CAH.  I can even remeber wanting to be a boy and trying to stand up to pee, not very successful I might add.  I guess because I struggled with this not having CAH, I’m afraid my daughter will have it even tougher.  Also forgive my ignorance on being gay, but I heard some gay people say they knew when they were young because they were differen’t from their same sex peers.  How do you know if your child is gay or straight?  I guess you wait and see who they choose to date?  Thank you everyone for caring and responding.  I know I’m getting too far ahead the poor kid is only 2.  I just want her to be happy and not struggle with having friends.