This is really sad.

Why would one think that we force ourselves to act like other women? WE are women and I act like myself.  Nobody forced me to wear make -up as a teen and i like lip gloss because it is shines. I don’t have to wear make- up because I’m cute and confident without it. Although, I’ll wear make -up at times and think MAC cosmetics are cool but try to use organic products. I must say thought that i can carry off red lipstick really well and nobody ever told me to wear that. I loved plaid mini skirts  as a teen and found memories of velvet dresses as a child but other dresses as a child? nope wasn’t me. I’m a strong woman even if i never wanted to be one and the guys that I like are strong minded as well .... ummm love Canadian men as well. Stronge MEN not jerks like strong women. I like decorating and have this design mag that I just bought and I can shop to I drop besides having great memories of Hudson’s Dept. Store as a kid. I like cars and even can tell you how a brake system works but I don’t love cars- I wanted to redo my car becuase I liked the era that it came from. I like to listen to men talk because well ....the way they sound is a turn on and what they are talking about is a close second. I’m feminine looking as well but I’m not beautiful ...sorta cute and have been told by other that I am cute and pretty- I’ve been wistled at eatting french fries. I’m not offended or threatened by women that are beautiful and like them as people.   Yep when I was born people had no idea externally what I was but tests showed that I was female with a wacky adrenal gland. Friends  accept me for who I am and when I try to act like anybody else but me? they get upset.

I’m not gay but sometimes I wish that I was and utter no feelings for women in a sexual way at all which is much to the disapointment of some male friends that are still hoping that I’d be bi- sexual. I know people that are gay and they’ve stated that they always knew. I guess there is a 34% chance that a female with CAH will be a lesbian and that’s cool but you never read about the rest of us with CAH.

Heck tomboys scare me. I never wanted to be a boy but just wanted people not to shove me into their version of what they think I should be like and resented grown men and women slicing up muy genitals and putting their paws on me.  

If you fuss about what you think she should be? then you are going to miss who she really is and give her a whopping inferority complex.

I go to museums and enjoy the artwork but those researchers don’t put things like that in.

I bet she will stuggle because you do and this seems like you will carry it to her.

She doesn’t want to wear a bow? Maybe, she thought it looked stupid? I like braclets and necklaces and never wore a bow.   

She is a two year old person that went through major surgery. Please give her a break.

Aimee