why are so many people on this board worried about if their kid is gay or straight? ...just curious. You should be more worried about getting them into therapy immediately because of the emotional issues they will encounter from the surgeries. It’s traumatic on the mind, ego, body image and everything else under the sun. I know the parents on this board care about their kids, but seriously stop worrying about the things that are out of your control and just support and love them and just keep repeating the words: therapy, therapy, therapy and then hopefully your kid will be well adjusted to their condition and will make decisions that will enrich their own happiness—not societies! otherwise, you very well could see your child heading towards the dark side of confronting suicide...