I did a lot of thinking this past weekend.  I’ve always known I was given something special when she was born and I just don’t want to "blow it".  You all made me realize I need to relax and stop trying to figure out which"mold" she will fit in.  We had some friends over for super bowl and she tackled the other little girl.  I had to laugh on the inside and I told her gently the other kid may have not liked that.  Its hard to not wonder sometimes about your child’s future when the doctors stand there hours after your baby is born and tell you your child has a high chance of being gay.  I want her to be who she is and sometimes I struggle trying to figure out what to do.  I have two sons, I buy them robots , spiderman, and dirtbikes.  My daughter likes these too and that’s fine with me.  By the way, my 6 year old son loves giving himself makeovers with make up.  He would "die" if he knew i told anyone.  I let him do it and I guess I should apply this to my daughter too.  I appreciate how some of you were candid, sometimes I need to hear it.  Thank you for sharing your personal stories too.  AS far as therapy goes, I couldn’t agree with Tegan more.  It’s too bad most therapists have no clue on how to help a family or individual with CAH .  I intend to avail myself of therapy for my daughter as she grows and when any needs may occur along the way.