I agree with Wan, I understand that people are trying to learn about the condition, but it really can consume you if you are not careful.  These feelings can be transferred to our children if we are not careful.  I think most of us want the same thing, which is for our children to be as independent and active as possible.  I also think that it is fair to say that there are many parents out there who are raising their CAH children this way and as a result don’t post on the board as often as others.  I used to check this board daily, anymore I only check maybe once a month.  Mainly because I too get tired of reading the posts attempting to link CAH to any symptom a child might have.  I don’t feel this board is as educational as it used to be.  This is just my opinion.