It is the way things are written, I saw this title as negative, others have often asked this question but sensitively and after your comments to Sue about the new meds, it may have been taken the wrong way. On the whole we get on well on this board, at the moment praying for people like Cherry, who is an inspiration to us all....... we lean on each other, we learn from each other. This board is a blessing, so people get riled when things are written in an accusing way.