I guess the tone of this board is changing it is fine for some to post what they want but others who genuinely do care get accused of being rude. I agree this post has its merit but if it is going to get insulting whether tongue in cheek, would be best suited to the other board, so this is not cluttered and questions missed - as they were!! To answer your question my child is 9. Like me I am sure you have been following the board for years, and have seen someone even banned. My point, even in jest the posts which are name calling, with a smile or not, are ruder than my comment which was my point. Did you not see how rude the same poster was to Sue regarding the new meds - who is to say this person even has CAH, especially if you read the posts carefully. I was not judging but merely said it would be better suited to the controversy board. I agree that it should come to an end - just like my visits to this board but thank you for your kind words, they are appreciated.