My 3 month old SWCAH daughter has 2 tests coming up next week with her urologist.  She has a renal ultrasound and a VCUG.  The letter from the hospital says that I can be there to comfort my child for the ultrasound, but a medical specialist will comfort my child during the VCUG.  From my understanding (I haven’t even met the urologist yet, when he came to look at my daughter when she got diagnosed I had stepped out of the room to get something to eat, so my mom met him) this is to determine if she will need any kind of corrective surgery.  I am in a way anxious to have this done, but in a way very fearful.  I want to have it over and done with and hopefully get great results that my daughter will not need any surgery.  But I am so afraid that it will hurt my daughter and that what they find won’t be good.  Can anyone help?  I read some of these posts from people who have CAH and say that living with it is not that bad but all the stuff that goes along with it is (Dr’s appts, surgeries, etc).  I want my daughter to know that everyone in this world is unique in their own way and that nothing about her makes her "not normal", because there is no normal!!