THank you everyone, i am very aware that him not taking his meds can kill him. i know that and he knows that. he is 26 years old and can make his own decisions. im not going to make him do anything. he does know that i will not marry someone that has an illness so severe that i marry him one day and the next he is dead. i just wanted to know if we would be able to have a child with his condition so he can get the right answers. him taking meds or goin to the doc is his decision since it is his illness, not mine.