Thank you so much for posting that.  I was just thinking this weekend that I was jelous of my husband because he has the ability to look at our CAH affected daughter just the same as he did our unaffected older daughter.  I can’t.  I have been the one researching and asking a ton of questions and making all the phone calls to education myself and make sure I do everything for my CAH baby.  This past weekend I decided I wasn’t going to do that anymore, I wanted to kindof ignore the CAH (not the meds, just the label) the way my husband does.  But your poem reminded me that I have to continue doing everything I have been doing.  I have to be her advocate and make certain the dr’s are doing everything for my daughter.  I just have to learn to balance being focused on the CAH and  asking lots of questions and looking at my daughter as just a baby, not always my CAH baby.  Thanks again for posting that.  I printed a copy.  I’m at work reading it trying to fight back the tears.  I hope you had a great mothers day!!!!!