thank you all for your messages.
Rob, Its surprising how easier it is to deal with knowing that there are other people in my position. i am currently seeing an endro that is finding out from some of her collegues re the reproduction side of my case, and will be sure to let you know if she says anything extra or even contradictory to what has been posted.
Liz, Thank you for your sincere words. If your child does have CAH, at least you can genuinely relate to this different side of life. I assume that neither of your parents had CAH? Is difficult for them to really understand the childs thoughts on this. Of course they can be there, but not fully understanding makes it hard on the child. You sound very caring, and am sure that will come across to your baby.
Ros, Thank you for your information. Its confusing, but i think i worked it out. I will take this to my endro when i see her in a few weeks and seek a little extra clarification.
Thank you all again, i hope that everything works out for the best.
~Kat.