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Thanks for your support on my postings. Sometimes I think I may make someone angry because I FEEL so STRONGLY about most of these issues. Especially the surgery . I just think Betsy does not know where we are coming from as a PARENT. I think at times her vigilance is so strong for HER own cause she just can't see the two sides. You know I truly feel bad she is being so shallow on some of the stances we take to uphold our childrens honor and make the world aware of how dangerous this disorder can be. I would like to believe she is not a BAD person just a misguided one full of anger, fear and jealousy because of the things that happened to her .In the 70's I went to beauty school and socialized with many homosexual/gay classmates. They were either very up beat and funny or very scary because they were so unstable about who they were and how unaccepted they are in society. Some were very dear friends and some were just plain mean and enjoyed being that way and abusing others because it gave them a sense of power. I tried many years ago to understand there cause and there wishes and came to the conclusion that like straights. LIFE is WHAT YOU make it! It is as if they blame the world for any shortcomings in there life. I often ask myself what I will do if my Mitzi turns out to be gay and I have to say NOTHING... Love her even more as I know she would have a rough road ahead of her. Why the gays want to continously throw stones at the straights amazes me. I could care less who sleeps with who as I always look at the soul of the person before I judge them. Betsy wants to come across as being a master of intellect on gay issues and CAH and surgery and pyschiatrics and of course PARENTING. As WE all know parenting is a hands on job and you don't know it until you do it. I do read some of the stuff she posts and I understand WHY she fights so hard AGAINST surgery with out permission....... but we all know that what she is advocating is unrealistic in our realm of child nurturing on our girls having surgery when needed. WHO is she and what makes her the expert on this issue. A website and a loud mouth does not make you a professional on this subject. While I think her website is better suited for her cause and gay agendas she also thinks ours is her forum also. NOT THAT THIS IS OURS! But to eagerly WAIT like a creature in the dark to pounce on a frightened mother who has just been given info about there cah infant and trying to push her cause at them first is too much of a coincidence. This is not or should not be her purpose in life. Give us the common decency to make our heart wrenching decisons on our own. I can promise you one thing if we were to have a stand off with Parents for the surgery and groups from BLO's we would win hands down. She can quote statistics and numbers of supporters until the cows come home and I just don't believe them to be true!
Well I am sure I made some enemies stating what I REALLY think , but if your going to be honest about your feelings ...you better be big enough to put them in black and white and on paper or postings.
