Dear Catrina,
Like Anon, I agree that you must take these TV shows with "a grain of salt." I will not be watching because I doubt very much that show like this will explore that CAH is a life threatening adrenal gland medical condition- Do you think this show will talk about adrenal crisis - I bet no. Women with CAH can and do have their husbands children - Do you think this show will bring that up? lol, yeah right.
The word intersex doesn't even define the majority with CAH but it is used by the major universities and if parents and those with CAH would like CAH removed from under the intersex umbrella then write to these universities.
Cornell
http://www.cornellurology.com/uro/cornell/pediatrics/genitoplasty.shtml
University of Minnesota
http://www.med.umn.edu/peds/endocrin/faculty/sarafoglou/home.html/
Penn State
http://www.hmc.psu.edu/childrens/healthinfp/i/intersex.htm
Medical Advisory Board - Intersex Society of North America
http://www.isna.org/about/medicalboard/
http://www.isna.org