Susan,
My threads are a plea from someone that has been there and done that. Judgemental? No, I was just more real.
Like what I went over in my other post, I've had one that said nice things to my face about how I looked down there only to be told what he really thought by the Guy's buddies later on and it was really mean. I had one that treated me like the biggest freak on earth. He was into freaky things and thought CAH went along with it and just coundn't get it why I wasn't into freaky things also.
I've had one that was outright cruel when I brought up CAH and everything with it and that was the one that I thought was going to be the most understanding but there is one that is the greatest about it.
If you thought that bringing up STD'S was judgemental. It is your and everyone else who will post right to think that but I talk with people in Megan's age group that now have HIV, Herpes, Hepatitis and some other things. They wish they would of waited and suggest it to others. Yes, they had condoms and thought they were protected. Here we are with CAH worried about what others think when we should be worried what they may bring us.
It is just my opinion but to Megan if you are still reading any of this thread, I do think 17 is way to young for sex and when you bring along the CAH factor. Yes, it does make things harder and Megan would you be mature enough or do you really need to hear it at your age if by chance this guy that you've been dating a couple of months says something about CAH that might upset you?
17? why the rush?